I have a confession to make. I feel unsure about saying this out loud on here – fear of shame and shunning, I guess. But, this is my little corner, so, here goes it…
We want a girl.
For a firstborn.
My husband, especially, is determined (and very very hopeful) that we have a girl first. And, for the second, he would like either a girl or boy.
To clarify: we would absolutely be head over heels in love with a son OR daughter. But, if we had a choice, we would want to have a girl first.
So, is it wrong to try and tip the scales in our favor?
lol…im sure you wont be disappointed if its a boy instead…just preference im sure. anyway happy new years ( i want twins as my first borns LOL)
Haha.. I would love twin girls as my firstborns and then a boy later on. My “ideal” family for myself would be two girls and a boy.
Don’t feel guilty. My sister and I felt the same way. We both wanted girls as firstborns also. She had a little boy first and a girl second and says she wouldn’t have it any other. Of course, I don’t have any yet, so we shall see.
I think it’s pretty common to have a preference. But, we’re thinking of trying the Shettles method to conceive a girl… If it works, great. If it doesn’t… Oh well. There’s always next time ;)
Where are you guys in your plans?