I have a confession to make. I feel unsure about saying this out loud on here – fear of shame and shunning, I guess. But, this is my little corner, so, here goes it…
We want a girl.
For a firstborn.
My husband, especially, is determined (and very very hopeful) that we have a girl first. And, for the second, he would like either a girl or boy.
To clarify: we would absolutely be head over heels in love with a son OR daughter. But, if we had a choice, we would want to have a girl first.
So, is it wrong to try and tip the scales in our favor?